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Wednesday, July 16, 2008

VALUABLE LIFE LESSONS


Coming home from work today I had this absolute longing for some one. This is who popped into my head. Another best friend Aloma and her husband Johnny. They live in the eastern cape and i really do not get enough time to see them regularly but they are always in my thought.
Aloma was a friend who taught me the most valuable lesson in life.....
1. If you have done something tel it like it is. Don't try and make it nicer or less stupid. It takes all the "skinner" away and you never have to worry tomorrow that you might have to better on yesterday's cover up story.
2. Love your friend unconditionally...... She is amazing with this. She loves me unconditionally (That takes some doing !!!!!!!)
Aloma is one of the most positive people I have ever met and she taught me to look for the best in any shitty situation and not dwell on the bad side. Thanks my friend. i am a better person for knowing you..
Well I got home and phoned her straight away. She is just so fabulous... We went on a girls holiday too many years ago. We were four friends and went to look at the flowers on the western coast of South Africa. To say the least we had an absolute ball. We have been firm Friends since then.
I will go down and see them for 5 days before I leave for Dubai...... I can sit and chat to then in my PJ'S until late in the afternoon and then still go long into the night.
ALOMA I LOVE YOU LOTS MY FRIEND AND WILL "BLEDDIE" MISS YOU LOTS. Thanks for always being there for me and for teaching me such wonderful coping skills for life.
The foto's supplied of of Aloma Johnny and me.
Chat later again.

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